You’re passionate, hard-working and want to leave a positive impact and legacy on the world. Deep down you know you were destined for greatness. But somehow, your outer life does not match your inner-most desires and intentions you've set out for yourself. You feel like you’ve been stuck in the shadow of your true life. That fire in your belly is flickering and you’re worried it might go out… forever.
"Sometimes when you're in a dark place you think you've been buried but actually.. you've been planted." - Christine Caine
Let me Guess...
Somewhere in your late 20s and 30s, life has suddenly gotten very hard.
You've faced obstacles, things didn’t work out as you thought they would.
You stumbled into massive challenges and these things set you back. Massively.
You can’t shake the feeling that there must be something more to your life, but you feel defeated, disappointed, stuck and more full of self-doubt than ever before.
You think the fact that you haven't “made it” must mean that you’re not good enough or that there’s something wrong with you for not being more fulfilled...
The harder you try to fix your life & turn things around, the more stuck & defeated you feel..
You’ve tried
- free challenges
- mediation
- tapping
- yoga & exercise classes,
- reading empowering books & listening to ALL the self-help and spiritual podcasts...
Some of these inspire and motivate you enough to grab some hope for yourself and run with it for a few days but you always fall back into the same rut and stuckness…
OH MY GOSHNESS. Trust me,
I have been there!
What you’re going through is actually very common. It’s called the long dark night of the soul and I know what a truly difficult, painful and hopeless place this can be. The year before I turned 30 I plunged into my own darkness. My own Quarter-life Crisis.
My Story...
On the brink of turning 30, I went from having a life-long Kevin Hart level of positivity and optimism (no seriously, I was like Mary-f**king-sunshine) to experiencing depression and anxiety for the first time in my whole life.I felt I had failed at all my big dreams of becoming a Hollywood actress and serving the world. Nothing had gone to plan. I thought, “what the f**k have I done with my life?!”. The feeling of disappointment and failure was crushing, debilitating and depressing (literally).
How I
created
my own
Success
After 1 year of struggling through this dark night of the soul with no work, and my savings finished, I decided to give it all one more go. I invested in an online success breakthrough program for actors with a coach and threw my entire self into doing whatever it took.
Within 2 months of starting the program, I booked 4 acting jobs (1 of which was a TV Series on our biggest network in South Africa and the other a Feature Film on our SA Netflix with one of our top directors in SA). I booked multiple commercials and was even paid a random $10k from a job I had done 3 years prior. I had never been so busy as an actress in my entire 12-year career.
Not only did I have acting success but I co-founded a grassroots NGO in South Africa and got certified as a Quantum Coach to further my quest to help serve the world and make it a better place…
It was actually through one of the program's modules combined with finally getting what I thought I wanted, that I realised this dream of acting that I had been holding onto, might not be my truest, highest calling anymore…
At least, definitely not my only one.
And so here I am: Dripping with the passion and the path to show you how turn your quarter-life crisis into your quarter-life breakthrough, just like I did.
Okay! Here's your problem:
You feel stuck and like a failure. It feels like you have plateaued and can't get through to the next level of success
1
You lack clarity and direction about which path to take or how to get the hell out of this funk
2
Your D.I.C (deepest inner critic) is getting waaaay too much airtime in your head, running the show, keeping you small, scared & making you doubt yourself
3
You feel like you’re inherently spiritual but you don’t feel any of the “magic” of the Universe/Quantum Field or that maybe the Universe has abandoned you because you sure as hell ain't sparklin’
4
Your life feels unexciting, unfulfilling and like you're fighting an uphill battle to get shit down and achieve success
5
HERE'S WHAT YOU NEED
One huge leap and throwing your whole self into backing yourself again
Inner Critic Mastery where you get to destroy your D.I.C and learn how to keep it in check
Reprogramming subconscious beliefs that you’re carrying about yourself that are no longer aligned this new version of yourself
A Deep connection to the Universe as well as learning spiritual prinicples and tools to get you through ANY dark time in life
Creating joy from within and manifesting events, experiences and people that will lead to the Universe supporting your dreams and goals
Transformed Energy, because then your behaviour changes easily, which leads to new, aligned action and boom! The manifestations follow.
Here's how it works
As a Certified Quantum Life & NLP Success Coach I use the
Release, Rewire, Receive Method
Release
release negative, limiting & false beliefs (conscious and subconscious), energy and programs at the root cause.
Rewire
reprogram old beliefs and create new ones to support the life you want to live.
Receive
setting goals/outcomes and intentions for what you wish to receive and create in your life, so that you can receive from the Universe with ease.
The Tangible Details (exactly whats included)
1 x 75 min Face the Shadow Intro Session to vent and unleash your shadow. I will collect your limiting beliefs to inform our journey together. We’ll get to the nitty, gritty of what’s happened in your life and why it’s all holding you back.
1x 1 hr Quantum Belief Rewire Session where you face your D.I.C (deepest inner critic) and rewire it to work for you rather than against you.
1 x 75 min NLP TIME Release Technique Intensive to release emotional baggage and limiting beliefs - This is incredible. We can even go back lifetimes & generations if you’re into it.
1 x 1 hr Goal Setting Session where we get really clear about what your goal is, remove any limiting beliefs getting in the way and insert it into your future timeline. I like to do this further on in the program because you’re brighter/lighter and more open to possibility and creativity.
1 x 1 hr Calling, Purpose & Mission Session: my favourite tool to discover what your deepest, most precious values are, and what your calling and your mission is, so you can start calling in events/people/synchronicities that are aligned with who you authentically are (quantum manifestation).
7 x Additional 1 hr Private Coaching Sessions to review progress, remove blocks and clean up any habits or undesirable behaviours.
Co-created weekly actionable steps to keep you moving towards your big goal.
Telegram/Voxer Support between sessions for accountability, questions, AHAs and celebrations - like having your biggest hypeman on speed dial!
Resources and homework as needed.
We meet for 4 months: 3 weeks on, 1 week off (for you to integrate what you’re learning. Through my experience I found meeting every single week for an extended time can be a lot. Easy does it :)
Ready to Invest in Yourself?
Pay Monthly
4 x Monthly Payments of
$550
Save $200 vs extended
Includes Access to my 1st group Coaching program Launching end of 2022
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PAY IN FULL
$2000
Save $200 - $400
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Extended Plan
5 x Monthly Payments of
$480
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Real talk.
Does this investment amount scare you?
I want you to consider what amount of money would you pay to be living your dream, joyful, successful life? How much would you pay for that?
Consider that when you invest money into yourself (which is what this is) what kind of commitment and sense of accountability would the investment give you to show up? (I know personally when I have made big investments in myself, it FORCES me to SHOW UP and DO THE WORK!)
I never recommend taking out a massive loan, or mortgaging your house etc or doing something irresponsible. But if the investment scares you a little, it's good! It means it is going to stretch and expand you.
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What if you fail again? At this program?
I totally get this. Sometimes the fear isn't actually about investing money in yourself, the fear is that you might not have what it takes to do the program and get the transformation.
Fill in the application. Let's hop on a call and I can coach you through this.
You have it what it takes, if you've come this far, Spirit is guiding you, showing you. The first step to believe in yourself again, is, well, to believe.
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Imagine in 4 months you could...
- Be joyfully carrying out your action plan to breakthrough to the next level of success in your life
- Already have people, places and things manifesting, seemingly out of nowhere to support you in your next successful chapter of life
- Be excited to wake up in the morning and ready to take on your day
- Have a morning routine that is the bomb and allows you to be excited for your day and grounded going into it, with the power of the Universe/God/Spirit behind you
- Be clear on your purpose, mission and calling
- Have the self-belief and confidence to take inspired action and have quietened your DIC (deepest inner critic)
- Have that fire in your belly back and burning brighter than ever, driving your passion and your creativity.
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This is for you if:
You are ready to throw your heart and soul into something completely new that will propel you forward
You are interested in spirituality, manifestation, the quantum field and how to harness these things to create seemingly magical experiences in your ife
You want the accountability of a coach but are ready to take your own action and be the driver of your own destiny
However, this is not for you if...
You want to be handheld and spoon-fed and want someone else to ‘fix” you
You’re not ready to take responsibility for everything in your life and want to hold onto the idea that the world is against you and everything happens TO you (rather than FOR you)
You are cynical about spirituality and don’t believe in a higher power/god/highest self or that the Universe has a divine higher system happening
Why
work
with me
Hi! In case you couldn’t tell so far, I am Ashleigh van der Hoven and I am a Certified Quantum Life & NLP Success coach. Not only have I been where you’ve been and gotten myself out of it, I have a bunch of certifications and tools that I have mastered to fast track this spiritual rite of passage for you. I am a dreamer all through my heart and nothing makes me more sad than people giving up on their dreams and goals out of defeat. I truly believe the pursuit of our dreams is what causes us to become our true, best, highest, most authentic selves and I am wildly passionate about facilitating this space for people.
I am extremely multi-passionate. For the last 12 years, I have been an actress in South Africa but gave up my dream (for now) to live my true dream as a Spiritual Coach, Guide and Entrepreneur. I have a Degree in Economics and Finance. In 2021 I Co-Founded a Political & Social Disaster Relief NGO in South Africa, called Khanyisa uMzansi. I have an amateur boxing record in Cape Town. I am a YTT-200 Yoga Teacher. Until recently I taught Drama & Play Therapy at a Rehab (best job ever). And lastly, I am a crypto geek, although I recently lost almost all my money (unrealised loss - I am HODL for now) so don’t take advice from me, lol.
A list of my certifications:
- Board-Certified Practitioner of Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP)
- Certified Quantum Group Coaching Facilitator
- Certified Practitioner of Emotional Freedom Technique
- Certified Practitioner of T.I.M.E. Techniques
- Reiki Energy Healer Level I
- NLP Success Coach
- Certified Hypnosis Practitioner
- 200hr Yoga Teacher Training
- Bachelors in Economics & Finance
By the end of the 4 months you'll have:
The tools and mechanisms to build the life of your dreams.
A mindset that is joyful and resilient. A belief in yourself that helps to keep you inspired and motivated as you continue building your dream life.
The actual clarity and direction around what your life’s mission and calling is and being able to take the next steps toward it.
Magical manifestations showing up in your life, that will continue to blossom as you implement the tools further beyond our time together.
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Client Testimonials
So much clarity and confidence to move towards my goals I was able to show up better for my existing clients and potential clients. Thank you for holding such a beautiful safe space for me and my growth. Excited for the future Love love love you Ashleigh xoxo 💋
CLIENT- GLORIA MUNITZ
You can keep doing what you are doing or you can finally see results.
"Ashleigh is one of the kindest souls I know, so intuitive and gentle and masterful at leading from her heart space. She brings all these beautiful qualities and so much more to her coaching. Enabling her to guide you from a sacred, connected space where you feel incredibly held and supported on your journey. She is able to get the very best out of you by steering you onto a path that’s best for you and enabling you with tools to powerfully conduct your own healing."
CLIENT- CARISHMA BASDAY
I felt confronted but in such a kind loving way, I felt challenged, I felt sad, but happy too. She never told me an answer but asked all the right questions, even some I didn't even know needed to be asked. I honestly felt so connected with my true self and the person that I have always wanted to be. I cried with joy and excitement at all the possibilities for the future.
CLIENT- KATE TROLLIP
Thank you so much beautiful Ashleigh, for a magnificent coaching session! It was gentle and profound!!!
CLIENT- MARLISA DOUBELL
Okay! Sign me the f**k Up!
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